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May 20 she's not Rachel《老友记》最动人片断之Ross and Rachel
（第二季）208 The One With the List
[Scene: Chandler and Joey's apartment. Ross is up in arms about the Rachel/Julie situation.] CHAN: Ok, all right, look. Let's get logical about this, ok? We'll make a list. Rachel and Julie, pros and cons. Oh. We'll put their names in bold, with different fonts, and I can use different colors for each column.
ROSS: Can't we just use a pen?
CHAN: No, Amish boy.
JOEY: Ok, let's start with the cons, 'cause they're more fun. All right, Rachel first.
ROSS: I don't know. I mean, all right, I guess you can say she's a little spoiled sometimes.
JOEY: You could say that.
ROSS: And I guess, you know, sometimes, she's a little ditzy, you know. And I've seen her be a little too into her looks. Oh, and Julie and I, we have a lot in common 'cause we're both paleontologists, but Rachel's just a waitress.
CHAN: Waitress. Got it. You guys wanna play Doom? Or we could keep doing this. What else?
ROSS: I don't know.
JOEY: Oh, her ankles are a little chubby.
CHAN: Ok, let's do Julie. What's wrong with her?
ROSS: [long pause] She's not Rachel.
——除却巫山不是云
（第五季）501 The One After Ross Says Rachel
[Scene: Ross’s Wedding, continued from last season, the Minister is about to marry Ross and Emily.]
Minister: Friends. Family. We are gathered to celebrate here today the joyous union of Ross and Emily. (Time lapse) Now Ross, repeat after me. I Ross...
Ross: I Ross...
Minister: Take thee, Emily...
Ross: Take thee, Rachel...(All his friends have looks of shock on their faces. He realizes what he said. Quickly he says.) Emily. (A slight chuckle.) Emily.
Minister: (Looking and feeling awkward. he looks towards Emily.) Uhh...Shall I go on?
Rachel: (To the woman sitting in front of her) He-he said Rachel, right? Do you think I should go up there?
Emily: Yes, yes, do go on.
Minister: I think we’d better start again. Ross, repeat after me. I, Ross…
Ross: I, Ross…
Minister: Take thee, EM-I-LY…
Ross: Take thee, (Glares at the Minister) Emily. (Chuckles) Like there’d be anybody else. (Emily is glaring at him.)
Minister: As my lawfully wedded wife, in sickness and in health, till death parts us.
——最无欺的潜意识，最深的期待
（第六季）614 The One Where Chandler Can’t Cry
[Scene: Monica and Chandler's, time lapse, Ross is entering. Chandler and Monica are at the kitchen table. Rachel is on the couch reading.]
Chandler: Hey.
Ross: (To Rachel) You uh, you may have been right about Jill.
Rachel: Oh! I knew it! What happened?
Ross: Umm, she kissed me.
Rachel: What?! You kissed!
Chandler: (To Monica) Maybe we should give them some privacy.
Monica: (To Chandler) Shhhh!!!
Ross: Look, I uh, I tried not to kiss her, okay?
Rachel: Well, it doesn’t sound like it! I mean, it’s pretty easy not to kiss someone, you just don’t kiss them! See look at us, right now, not kissing!
Ross: Let me finish, okay? She started kissing me and-and I didn’t stop it. I guess I-I just wasn’t thinking…
Rachel: Yeah that’s right you weren’t thinking! Y’know what? Let me give you something to think about! (She pulls up her sleeves and steps towards him.)
Ross: Oh wait—hold it! But then I started thinking and I stopped the kissing.
Rachel: Oh, well thank you for taking your tongue out of my sister’s mouth long enough to tell me that.
Ross: Look I-I realize if anything were to happen with me and Jill then nothing could ever happen with us!
Rachel: What?!
Ross: No, I mean, look I don’t know if anything is going to happen with us, again. Ever. But I don’t want to know that it-it never could. So I stopped it and she got mad and broke my projector.
Rachel: Wow. I, I don’t even know what to say. Thank you. (Gently kicks him.)
Ross: You’re welcome. (Gently kicks her back.)
(Chandler starts crying.)
Monica: Oh my God! Are-are you crying?
Chandler: (crying hysterically) I just don’t see why those two can’t work things out.
——我不知道我们之间还有没有可能，但我不愿意让它成为不可能
May 05 燃点在哪里每个人，每一天，都有一些事是期待着看到、发生和去做的吧。
就像早上睁开眼睛想到今天要穿的美衫，旋转办公之隙想到下班可赴的约会、可接的孩子，疲惫返家之途想到进门可见的宠物、可口的饭菜，等等。有了这些精神为之一振的盼头，日子的平白与难耐才易于通过一些，时间的暴力才不至于发指到遥遥无期。人就是这么容易安慰的动物，今朝有酒，即可安度，囚犯也不例外。
那个醉于酒的时刻，即是那一段生命的燃点。火光之下，是一颗灼烧的心，和不失美好的蓬勃征途。
只是我的燃点，已经越来越不明显了，要去哪里找回呢
March 28 Because Of You Kelly Clarkson - Because Of You I will not make the same mistakes that you did 我不会和你犯相同的错误 I will not let myself Cause my heart so much misery 我不会允许自己给自己的心带来如此多的痛苦 I will not break the way you did, You fell so hard 我不会改变你的做法（?），你已如此不幸 I ve learned the hard way To never let it get that far 我已经知道不让它发展成那样的艰难的方法 Because of you ，I never stray too far from the sidewalk 因为你，我从不离开正途太远 Because of you I learned to play on the safe side so I don t get hurt 因为你，我学会为了不让自己受伤而在安全地带流连 Because of you I find it hard to trust not only me, but everyone around me 因为你，我发现很难相信自己甚至身边的人 Because of you I am afraid 因为你，我很害怕 I lose my way And it s not too long before you point it out 当我迷失自我，你很快为我指明道路 I cannot cry Because you know that s weakness in your eyes 我不能哭泣，因为你知道那正是你眼中的懦弱 I m forced to fake A smile, a laugh everyday of my life 我被迫要在生命中的每一天假装微笑、开怀大笑 My heart can t possibly break 我的心不可能破碎 When it wasn t even whole to start with 因为它从一开始就未曾完整过 Because of you ，I never stray too far from the sidewalk 因为你，我从不离开正途太远 Because of you I learned to play on the safe side so I don t get hurt 因为你，我学会为了不让自己受伤而在安全地带流连 Because of you I find it hard to trust not only me, but everyone around me 因为你，我发现很难相信自己甚至身边的人 Because of you I am afraid 因为你，我很害怕 I watched you die 我眼看着你死去 I heard you cry every night in your sleep 我听着你每晚睡梦中的哭泣 I was so young 我还太年轻 You should have known better than to lean on me 你早就应该明白你不能依靠我 You never thought of anyone else 你从未顾及到别人 You just saw your pain 你只看到了自己的痛苦 And now I cry in the middle of the night 而现在我在每个午夜哭泣 For the same damn thing 却是为了相同的该死的东西 Because of you ，I never stray too far from the sidewalk 因为你，我从不离开正途太远 Because of you I learned to play on the safe side so I don t get hurt 因为你，我学会为了不让自己受伤而在安全地带流连 Because of you I try my hardest just to forget everything 因为你，我拼命的想要忘记过去的一切 Because of you I don t know how to let anyone else in 因为你，我不知道如何接纳任何人 Because of you I m ashamed of my life because it s empty 因为你，我因生活的空虚而感到羞愧 Because of you 因为你 I am afraid 我害怕 Because of you Because of you March 21 一段摘抄……
March 12 记小黑和芭比的相似之处天又下雨了，finally。这几日的晴好就像是偷来的，终于给还了回去，生活又可以安心的继续。
近一个星期的主题是看书备考，每晚和芭比在家中相对，发现这小东西一日聪复一日，可喜可爱，和小黑也有不少可比之处呢！
比如：
生活重大事项的排序（按热衷程度）依次是：出去找同类玩、歪在窝里睡觉、勉强吃几口粮。。。
亲善开朗，活泼动人，属于外向型狗狗
长毛唬人，极瘦体质，除去外包装只剩骨架一副
胆小、谨慎、警觉、闪人极快～
尖嘴猴腮，眉目婉转，眼神可清纯可狡黠，深明暗渡陈仓之道
鼻子漂亮，也娇贵，动辄三个喷嚏。。。 顽固，劣习一二，屡教不改
最会装可怜，也最善张声势，察言观色、讨好卖乖之能者 晕车，居然还会吐，居然还要吐四次！ 好奇宝宝，爱围观，爱掺和，无聊起来直哼哼
挨揍不怎么记仇，但有一点点后怕
爱我，贪玩，却会时不时回望我，如果多喊几遍，多远也能喊回来。
March 05 这世界正如你想要的那么黑夜太黑（林忆莲）
告别白昼的灰
夜色轻轻包围 这世界正如你想要的那么黑 霓虹里人影如鬼魅 这城市隐约有种堕落的美 如果谁看来颓废 他只是累 要是谁跌碎了酒杯 别理会 只是夜再黑 遮不住那眼角不欲人知的泪 oh 夜太黑 它又给过谁暖暖的安慰 只怪夜太黑 谁又在乎酒醒了更憔悴 夜太黑 酒精把一切都烧成灰 夜太黑 (music) 告别白昼的灰 夜色轻轻包围 这世界正如你想要的那么黑 霓虹里人影如鬼魅 这城市隐约有种沦落的美 男人久不见莲花 开始觉得牡丹美 女人芳心要给谁没所谓 只是夜再黑 也能看见藏在角落的伤悲 oh 夜太黑 谁也没尝过真爱的滋味 只怪夜太黑 没人担心明天会不会后悔 hey 夜太黑 酒精把一切都烧成灰 夜太黑 在轻轻地轻轻地轻轻地包围 沦落的美 如果谁看来颓废 只是累 无心跌碎了酒杯别理会 只是只是只是夜再黑 也遮不住那眼角的眼泪 暖暖的安慰 它给过谁 谁又在乎酒醒之后更憔悴 谁又担心明天会不会后悔 但夜太黑 夜太黑 March 02 雨季这个二月已然变身雨季。无数个沉沉的早上、昏昏的下午和静静的夜晚，都一律浸透在不知疲倦的雨里，永远幽暗的天幕，看上去像极了一个痛彻心肺的人，在时时哀哭，阵阵抽泣，过去了那么多天，仍然无法停歇。在这泪雨的浇泼下，一切想要发酵的情绪都无处可逃。
夜里偶有惊雷，旋接暴雨，忽然将人唤醒，亦惹得家犬狂吠。在这样的叱咤中静卧，心底也不由惴惴，彷佛正听人歇斯底里的怒吼，吼声划破夜空，震耳欲聋，自己却无言以对，只有闭目缩头，任凭发作，于莫名的沮丧中挣扎入睡。微黑的窗外，黎明还未到来，房屋树木全悄无声息的伫立，湿润，默默同情着这世上的我们。
万物啊，一定是看惯了人间太多的悲戚与无常，才选择无动于衷的吧，天怒也好，人怨也罢，终抵不过时空的荒芜。而那造物主，一定是饱含了太多诚挚的热泪，才忍不住一再垂洒，芸芸众生，沧海桑田，多少美好与残酷，唯有用长长的雨季来抒发吧。
February 16 归路对于我，09年来的可说颇不容易。
一场空前绝后的感冒从年前盘桓至年后，一路追随我沪、汉、深、广四地辗转，并辅以其他大小不适，七情五味……寥寥半月，摧神挫骨，直要将人逼入一埋伏已久的窠臼方肯罢休。
痛归痛，反观自己此前，也确实标榜的太多，而力行的太少，有破无立，实难服人，自成窠臼也未可知；不如纵身一跳探个究竟，若换得众望所归，也不算憾事。人生的天地，或田地，终究不是一步开辟的，怎么走都别偷懒，就对了。
那些依稀的愿想，就留待日后的积淀与机缘去澄明吧！
December 15 不伤
正似针尖上的舞蹈，最美的诠释，来自最深的疼痛。 December 11 放逐从来，没有这么害怕过醒着 从来，没有这么害怕过空着 从来，没有这么害怕过周末的人群 从来，没有这么害怕过阳光的午后 当我看完京华烟云，看完梵高传，翻完所有报纸杂志，扫完那些论坛和博客，又啃完最后一点哈利波特，甚至于把近期上映的电影都看了个遍，却仍然填不满心里的空洞，要怎么办？合上书，抬起头，走出黑暗的放映厅，我还是我，生活照旧无法寻觅，无可欢欣。 对照这个繁华而残酷的世界，我已经拥有的东西很多，尚未拥有的东西也很多，可我并不知道怎么用它们拼凑出幸福的人生。得与未得之间，心的满足与未足之间，此消彼长，皆关悲喜，到底哪一个点为好，实难拿捏。别人的得意与失意，无论出自何种背景，你都无法代入，这一辈子，终究还是只能守着自己那点小小的欲求艰难度日，还须文火慢炖，烈则焚身，灭则等死；甘霖之于久旱，久旱之于甘霖，原本就是相生相伴的，人生之不得已在于此，其杂陈与回味也尽在于此。 但愿途中，我不会失掉勇气。 December 09 danger in loveSometimes love just ain't enough (by 燕姿）i don't wanna lose you,
but i don't wanna use you just to have somebody by my side. and i don't wanna hate you, i don't wanna take you, but i don't wanna be the one to cry. and don't really matter to anyone anymore. but like a fool i keep losing my place and i keep seeing you walk through that door. but there's a danger in loving somebody too much,
and it's sad when you know it's your heart you can't trust. there's a reason why people won't stay where they are. baby, sometimes, love just ain't enough. i could never change you,
i don't wanna blame you. baby, you don't have to take the fall. yes, i may have hurt you, but i did not desert you. maybe i just wanna have it all. it makes a sound like thunder,
it makes me feel like the rain. and like a fool who will never see the truth, i keep thinking something's gonna change. and there's a danger in loving somebody too much,
and it's sad when you know it's your heart they can't touch. there's a reason why people don't stay where they are. baby, sometimes, love just ain't enough and there's no way home,
when it's late at night and you're all alone. are there things that you wanted to say? do you feel me beside you in your bed, there beside you, where i used to lay? and there's a danger in loving somebody too much, and it's sad when you know it's your heart they can't touch. there's a reason why people don't stay who they are. baby, sometimes, love just ain't enough. baby, sometimes, love... it just ain't enough... 译文 不愿失去你 不愿利用你 只愿有人长伴我侧 并不想恨你 不想征服你 只是不想再哭泣 不再有所谓 像个傻瓜我不断退让 不停看着你来去 爱一个人太深很危险 你知道自己的心不可信有多可悲 人们总是学不乖 宝贝 因为有时爱就是不足够 既然无法改变你 我也不怪你 宝贝 你无须承担这个过错 是的我也许伤过你 但也从未想要放弃你 也许我太过贪心 贪求迴盪如雷 就像快下起雨一样 像个永远看不清事实的傻瓜 满心相信有些事终究会改变 爱一个人太深很危险 你知道自己的心不可信有多可悲 人们总是学不乖 宝贝 因为有时爱就是不足够 而你孤单一人 却找不到回家的路 你有什么话要说吗 你可在床边感到我的陪伴 我曾睡卧的床边 爱一个人太深很危险 你知道自己的心不可信有多可悲 人们总是学不乖 宝贝 因为有时爱就是不足够 October 27 海角七号《海角七號》七封情書 电影原文版
一九四五年十二月二十五日
友子，太陽已經完全沒入了海面 我真的已經完全看不見台灣島了 你還站在那裡等我嗎？
友子
友子
傍晚，已經進入了日本海
天亮了，但又有何關係
October 24 toothache午饭过后，几粒橡皮糖巧克力下肚，正惬意的看帖，一根牙神经突然狠狠的蹬了下腿，刹那间一股电流通遍全身，疼得我半个脑袋都发麻了……
接下来的半个多小时，这神经依然不依不饶，以不明规律动辄发作，徐徐而来，陡然攀升，迂回盘旋欲去还休，直到我坐立难安，眼泪都要出来了，它才缓缓告退……此时此刻，真是一点办法也没有，只有捂着脸听候它发落，连张嘴呻吟的份儿都没了
 平息之后，该牙又跟没事人一样，撺掇我吃掉剩下的巧克力，并任我怎么推挤拨弄都表现得妥妥当当无半点不适，但我想想还是拒绝了，决定实行巧克力戒食法脱敏治疗一段时间，若不见好转遂交牙医处置！
but how about my loveache?
October 21 sweet微凉的晚上，放一些遗失已久的老歌，轻轻的唱，慢慢的和，应着模糊的情绪，和隐约的笑。 想记录下一些仿佛幸福的片段，却终无从落笔。它们是一种无法分割的情怀，在时间里细碎绵延，使人沉实温暖，内心安定。即使下一秒就遭遇不幸，也有力量应对，因为只消想到他的目光，只消一秒，就不再懂得恐惧。 October 09 无轨电车尽管乏善可陈，生活仍在继续，日复一日。大体不变的框架内，总有偶发横生之段落，跌宕之余，尚可圈可点，也算没有白过吧。
长假挥霍一空的后果是，百余页交规只字未蒙，而考试就在8号。于是端出贪黑夜读的老本行，却已失去起早的功力，结果就是，让师傅在约定地点空等了近半个小时，两通电话骂完，愤而离去，撂下一句“你自己想办法去驾校，我不接了！”………周折之后，我还是灰溜溜到了驾校，灰溜溜报了名，紧巴巴背了多半小时书，就心惶惶进了考场，做完点交卷，那个冰冷的机器居然就恭喜我通过了诶！哈哈哈，92分，看来打擦边球的本事还没丢
 下午的运气明显背很多，自己判断车站位置，两次错误，问路两次，被指错一次，两次赶车一次赶地铁，无不拔腿狂奔百米而后一路无座，更绝的是，走足三小时终于回到家门口，发现钥匙落在某一中转站的便利店了。。。唯一值得高兴的事只有，如此辛苦去复查的眼睛状况良好，视力有增无减～～如果克制口腹节制开销也算的话，路过两家精美绝伦奇香无比人见腿软的面包店我都没有进去花掉一分钱哦～
今天呢，还没等我查清那便利店有没有捡到我的钥匙，室友居然就发消息来说已经帮我配好了！这这这，我只能说，老天的每一次打击都有它的道理，收获的除了教训，还有惊喜！ September 08 温暖的爪子日本寵物店門口掛著這十條建言
My life likely to last ten to fifteen years. Any separation from you
will be painful for me. Remember that before you buy me. 1.在你把我帶回家之前,請記得,我的壽命約有10~15年;你的離棄,會是我最大的痛苦. Give me time to understand what you want of me 2.請給我一點時間,讓我了解對我的要求是什麼. Place your trust in me--it's crucial to my Well-being. 3.信賴我--那對我非常重要. Don't be angry for me for long and don't lock me up as punishment. You have your work, your entertainment and your friends. I have only you. 4.請別對我生氣太久,也別把我關起來當作是懲罰.你有你的工作,你的娛樂,你的朋友, 但你是我的僅有. Talk to me sometimes. Even if I don't understand your words. I understand your voice when it's speaking to me 5.請偶而對我說說話,縱使我不懂你說的內容,但我聽的懂, 那是你的聲音在陪伴我. Be aware that however you treat me. I'll never forget it 6.你要知道無論你如何對待我, 我將永遠不會忘記. Remerber before you hit me that I have teeth that could easily crush the bones of your hand, but that I choose not to bite you. 7.當你打我時請記得,我其實擁有可以咬碎你手骨的尖銳牙齒, 我只是選擇不咬. Before you scold me for being uncooperative, please ask yourself if something might be bothering me. Perhaps I'm not getting the right food, or I've been run in the sun too long or my heart is getting old and weak. 8.當你因為責罵我的不合作、固執或懶惰之前,請你想想,是否有什麼正困擾者我. 或許我沒獲得我應有的食物,我已經很久沒在溫暖的陽光下奔跑, 又或者我的心臟已經太弱及太老.
Take care of me when I get old. you too, will grow old. 9.在我年老時請好好照顧我. 因為你也是會變老的. Go with me on difficult journeys. Never say I can't bear to watch it or let it happen in my absent. Everything is easily for me if you are there. Remember, I love you. 10.當我要捱過最辛苦的歷程時, 請千萬不要說:「我不忍心看他.」 或者「讓我不在場時才發生.」.只要有你和我在一起, 所有的事都會變得簡單容易接受. 請你永遠不要忘記, 我愛你. 这篇狗狗的自白看了很多遍，不管有意无意，每一遍，鼻子总会发酸，眼眶也隐约就要泛湿……来自另一个小小生灵的全身信赖和依靠，是那么令人欲泪，直教我们要好好自省一番，我是否具有这么坚定的责任感来承担它的爱与托付？我会不会因为自己的懒惰、自私与缺乏耐心害它受苦、将它辜负？人性之中的爱产生的那么轻易，与之相应的付出、承担与不离不弃却需要恒久的修炼，它穿越痛苦，将我们的爱变得诚恳、厚重、稳如托起一整片森林的山峦，而不再是婷婷风荷，只可让清晨的露珠栖身。
当一只小狗伸给你一只温暖的爪子，请记得永远守护它，它教给你的，远比你教它的多。
August 21 乐在其中，则佳作天成zz 琴棋书画与柴米油盐（转自光华）
近日在家中与母亲下厨，看她对着油盐酱醋如数家珍，信手调配，
直如画师拈五色，琴家挥七弦，其精幽曼妙之处，委实不下于那些阳春白雪。 看来，那位自嘲“琴棋书画诗酒花，当年件件不离它。而今七事都更变，柴米油盐酱醋 茶”的查为仁错过了此中佳处啊。急着在父亲归家之前完成四样菜色的母亲更是一片浑 然，唯有既不缺闲钱又不缺闲情的李笠翁，才能把柴米油盐也玩成一种艺术。 这大约便是心态的差别了。整日为五脏庙奔波的人，实在很难把油盐酱醋当成消遣。 每一顿饭都是性命攸关的大事，患得患失之心既重，又如何恣意挥洒，寻幽揽胜？ 得失之心，实是快乐与美的大敌。为了拿高分而写的文章，极少成为最出色的作品； 熬夜考试埋首书山的时候，就很难体会到知识本身的妙趣了。 根据亚里士多德的说法，事物的价值有两种，一种是内在的，存在于事物本身的价值； 另一种是外在的，由此事物带来的其他东西所产生的价值。而真正的快乐，只存在于前 者。就如同我们常常为了是否被爱而愁肠百转，却忘记了爱本身就是幸福。 也许，琴棋书画与柴米油盐，原本是同样美好的。只是，我们总是记挂着要填饱肚子而 已。 August 18 如果明天长久以来，心情阴俚不散，偶放晴光，总结有三
一是小黑来沪，带来欣喜甜蜜种种，也暗藏危机重重
二是旧文获奖，迟到的安慰与惊喜，天意自待揣摩
三是博友互励，默默的关注与被关注，茫茫人海之中，相似的灵魂总能相遇，怎不庆幸？
再深入总结，说明问题有三
一为，我确是一个有事业心的人，无法浇灌的梦想会是我一生的折磨，再安逸的生活也会蒙上阴影
二为，我是一个爱情至上抑或治伤的鸵鸟，当被现实逼得无所遁形，只会一头扎进他给的暖窝里，沉溺并拒绝重新面对考验
三为，我TM就是一个交游甚窄的人，故步自封，相识不多也疏于经营，极盼知音从天而降。。。
这些也反映出我的本性一二，那就是
好高骛远却逃避现实
不懂付出仍贪得无厌！
唯有苦笑
生活没法处处开花，但结的果必定浸透血汗
就像今天看到的一句警言
life may lead you where you least expect, but have faith that you are exactly where you are meant to be.
猛醒。
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